Planning a wedding can be one of the most stressful and exciting times in your life. But, let's face it, sometimes the stress can turn even the sweetest bride-to-be into a bit of a bridezilla. Don't worry; it happens to the best of us! Here's a fun and light-hearted self-assesment guide to help you determine if you are slipping into bridezilla territory, with some humorous tips on how to avoid it.
1. Your Pinterest Board has 10,000 Pins
Symptom: You've spent countless hours on Pinterest, pinning every possible wedding idea. Your board is so extensive that it feels like a part-time job.
Tip: Take a deep breath and remember, you don't need to implement every single idea. Pick your top favorites and let the rest go. Quality over quantity!
2. You've Given Your Bridal Party a 50-Page Handbook
Symptom: Your bridesmaids and groomsmen have recieved a detailed handbook outlining their duties, complete with diagrams, timelines, and dress codes.
Tip: While it's great to be organized, try to trust that your friends and family will support you without military precision. A friendly reminder now and then will suffice.
3. You've Had a Meltdown Over Napkin Colors
Symptom: You find yourself in tears because because the napkins are slightly off from your chosen shade of blush.
Tip: Remember the bigger picture: you're marrying the love of your life. Small details like napkin colors won't matter in the grand scheme of things. Practice saying, "it's okay!"
4. You're Micromanaging Every Vendor
Symptom: You're calling your florist, your caterer, and photographer daily to check on progress, often giving unsolicited advice.
Tip: Trust the professionals you've hired. They know what they're doing. Focus on the fun aspects of planning and leave the nitty-gritty details to the experts!
5. You've Threatened to Uninvite Family Members
Symptom: You've contemplated (or actually threatened) to uninvite family members who aren't following your wedding plans to the letter.
Tip: Weddings are about celebrating with loved ones. Try to address conflicts calmly and remember that flexibility can go a long way in maintaining family harmony.
6. You're Not Sleeping (or Eating) Properly
Symptom: You're so consumed with wedding planning that you're losing sleep and skipping meals, leading to stress and irrability.
Tip: Self-care is crucial. Make sure you're getting enough rest and nourishment. Consider delegating tasks to trusted friends or family members.
7. Your Fiance is Avoiding You
Symptom: Your fiance seems to be making himself scarce, possibly hiding from your wedding planning wrath.
Tip: Remember to nurture your relationship. Schedule regular date nights where wedding talk is off-limits. Keep the romance alive.
Conclusion
If you found yourself nodding along to several of these signs, don't worry - you're not alone! Wedding planning is a huge undertaking, but it should also be a joyous and exciting time. By keeping a sense of humor and perspective, you can avoid becoming a full-fledged bridezilla and enjoy the journey to your big day.
Are you brave enough to share your own bridezilla moments? Comment below or tag Cake and Confetti Party Co. on social media with your funniest wedding planning moments. And don't forget to follow me on all of the major social platforms for more tips, tricks, and a little bit of wedding humor.
Happy Planning!
Whitney | Sole Planner and Owner
Cake and Confetti Party Co.
